Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Tuesdays With Traci

Twenty Questions to Ask Your Spouse
Adapted from Faith Baptist Counseling Ministries

Both you and your spouse look over this list and find 5 that you would like to ask the other person. Then go on a date and discuss. I think you will find some of the answers very interesting. I did this with my husband and I learned so much that I didn’t know before. And a bonus - it was nice to have somthing to talk about other than the kids!!!

1. What gifts do you like to receive?
2-4. What makes you most fulfilled or happiest as a man or a woman? As a husband or wife? As a father or a mother?
5-7. What makes you saddest/most scared as a man or a woman? As a husband or wife? As a father or a mother?
8. What do you look forward to the most?
9. How much sleep do you need?
10. What are your skills?
11. What are your weaknesses?
12. With what chores and responsibilities do you like my help?
13. At what times do you need assurance of my love the most?
14. What concerns do you have that I do not seem interested in?
15. What do you enjoy doing with me, with the most enjoyable as first?
16. In what ways would you like me to protect you (physically, spiritually, socially, emotionally)?
17. What things do you think are first in my life? As you look at me what do you see?
18 How might I help motivate you and our children to use your skills and develop your abilities?
19. In what ways would you like me to sacrifice for you?
20. What ways demonstrate to you that you are a very important person to me?

3 comments:

Jennifer said...

this is just perfect for today because its our anniversary and we're going out tonight!

Chris, Stephanie & Brayden said...

This is a great idea!

JulzAnz said...

I love it...we will definately do this.